At no other time in the history of Christianity did love so characterize the entire
church as it did in the first three centuries. And Roman society took note. Tertullian
reported that the Romans would exclaim, “See how they love one another!”6
Justin Martyr sketched Christian love this way: “We who used to value the acquisition of wealth and possessions more than anything else now bring what we have into a
common fund and share it with anyone who needs it. We used to hate and destroy one
another and refused to associate with people of another race or country. Now, because of
Christ, we live together with such people and pray for our enemies.”7
Clement, describing the person who has come to know God, wrote, “He
impoverishes himself out of love, so that he is certain he may never overlook a brother in
need, especially if he knows he can bear poverty better than his brother. He likewise
considers the pain of another as his own pain. And if he suffers any hardship because of
having given out of his own poverty, he does not complain.”8
When a devastating plague swept across the ancient world in the third century,
Christians were the only ones who cared for the sick, which they did at the risk of contracting the plague themselves. Meanwhile, pagans were throwing infected members of
their own families into the streets even before they died, in order to protect themselves
from the disease.9
Another example illustrates both the brotherly love of Christians and their
uncompromising commitment to Jesus as Lord. A pagan actor became a Christian, but he
realized he had to change his employment because most plays encouraged immorality and
were steeped in pagan idolatry. Furthermore, the theater sometimes purposefully turned
boys into homosexuals so they could better play the roles of women on stage. Since this
newly-converted actor had no other job skills, he considered establishing an acting school
to teach drama to non-Christian students. However, he first submitted his idea to the
leaders of his church for their counsel.
The leaders told him that if acting was an immoral profession then it would be
wrong to train others in it. Nevertheless, since this was a rather novel question, they wrote
to Cyprian in nearby Carthage for his thoughts. Cyprian agreed that a profession unfit for
a Christian to practice was also unfit for him to teach, even if this was his sole means of
support.
How many of us would be so concerned about righteousness that we would submit
our employment decisions to our body of elders or board of deacons? How many church
leaders today would be so concerned about offending God that they would take such an
uncompromising position?
But that isn’t the end of the story. Cyprian also told this neighboring church that
they should be willing to support the actor if he had no other means of earning a
living—just as they supported orphans, widows, and other needy persons. Going further,
he wrote, “If your church is financially unable to support him, he may move over to us
and here receive whatever he needs for food and clothing.”10 Cyprian and his church
didn’t even know this actor, yet they were willing to support him because he was a fellow
believer. As one Christian told the Romans, “We love one another with a mutual love
because we do not know how to hate.”11 If Christians today made such a statement to the
world, would the world believe it?
The love of the early Christians wasn’t limited simply to their fellow believers.
Christians also lovingly helped non-believers: the poor, the orphans, the elderly, the sick,
the shipwrecked—even their persecutors.12 Jesus had said, “Love your enemies ... and
pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you” (Matt. 5:44). The early
Christians accepted this statement as a command from their Lord, rather than as an ideal
that couldn’t be actually practiced in real life.
Lactantius wrote, “If we all derive our origin from one man, whom God created,
we are plainly all of one family. Therefore it must be considered an abomination to hate
another human, no matter how guilty he may be. For this reason, God has decreed that we
should hate no one, but that we should eliminate hatred. So we can comfort our enemies
by reminding them of our mutual relationship. For if we have all been given life from the
same God, what else are we but brothers? ... Because we are all brothers, God teaches us
to never do evil to one another, but only good—giving aid to those who are oppressed and
experiencing hardship, and giving food to the hungry.”13
The Scriptures teach that a Christian shouldn’t take his brother to court. Rather, he
should suffer fraud at the hands of his brother, if need be. (1 Cor. 6:7) However, as an attorney, I’ve seen that Christians today don’t hesitate to sue their brothers and sisters in
Christ. A particularly disturbing case happened recently in the town where I live. A
student at a local Christian school worked on campus in his spare time to help pay his
tuition. One day he was overcome from the fumes of some insecticide he was spraying in
the school building, and he was briefly hospitalized. The school’s method of applying the
insecticide was apparently improper. The result? The parents sued the Christian school
for more than half a million dollars. In contrast, early Christians not only refused to take
their fellow Christians to court, most of them refused to take anyone to court, since they
viewed every human as their brother or sister.